11-17-2007, 06:19 PM
Someone who "fits" to me...
I don't know if any of you do this, and perhaps it's because I have the benefit of years of experience of being with someone I absolutley adore and fit with like book ends....
But for me there is a difference between guys I find hot for sex, and those that I know would be hot sex plus boyfriend material.
Example: I find small, cute, sexy guys sexually a turn on. 80+% of the time this is the kind of guy Fred and I will pick up together.
BUT, I would most likely never choose this type for a steady boyfreind. Those types I see once in a while....fit...to me. My age-ish, tall, good looking and muscular (but doesn't have to be god-like)...but with that something that says...my mom could totaly see us togehter.
There are couples you see that fit and ones you think..hhhmm, somemthing doesn't jive here. What's good for an hour or so might not be good for...ever.
Of course in both cases a thick nice one is pretty important. (God what a size queen!) I'm too sexual of a person not to have our sex life matter. The whole package has to fit long term or I'd rather be by myself with the occasional fling.
I don't know if any of you do this, and perhaps it's because I have the benefit of years of experience of being with someone I absolutley adore and fit with like book ends....
But for me there is a difference between guys I find hot for sex, and those that I know would be hot sex plus boyfriend material.
Example: I find small, cute, sexy guys sexually a turn on. 80+% of the time this is the kind of guy Fred and I will pick up together.
BUT, I would most likely never choose this type for a steady boyfreind. Those types I see once in a while....fit...to me. My age-ish, tall, good looking and muscular (but doesn't have to be god-like)...but with that something that says...my mom could totaly see us togehter.
There are couples you see that fit and ones you think..hhhmm, somemthing doesn't jive here. What's good for an hour or so might not be good for...ever.
Of course in both cases a thick nice one is pretty important. (God what a size queen!) I'm too sexual of a person not to have our sex life matter. The whole package has to fit long term or I'd rather be by myself with the occasional fling.
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