10-23-2011, 03:24 PM
You know this whole passive or active or versatile typecasting of gays is ridiculous in my humble opinion, mind you I also think the whole straight or gay classification is also ridiculous. I mean we are always changing, maybe in small ways - small ways that add up to a different you on the long run. So why limit yourself to all these labels? We are not set in stone. Sexuality evolves, we evolve.
Me for example I have gone through stages when I was exclusively gay, but my needs and perception of life changed over time as I opened myself up to new ideas, experience and understanding of the human condition. There was a time when I was in a word passive, and then there was a time I was more active, there has been now times when I was drawn to a person sexually because of a deep connection which had nothing to do with their physic ( be it male or female).
I guess what I am trying to say is with time, as we evolve, if we do not confine ourselves to titles and expectations then we could enjoy a life that is truly free. Even free from fallacies such as Being Bottoming = Feminine?. Free from the need to live life through labels.
Me for example I have gone through stages when I was exclusively gay, but my needs and perception of life changed over time as I opened myself up to new ideas, experience and understanding of the human condition. There was a time when I was in a word passive, and then there was a time I was more active, there has been now times when I was drawn to a person sexually because of a deep connection which had nothing to do with their physic ( be it male or female).
I guess what I am trying to say is with time, as we evolve, if we do not confine ourselves to titles and expectations then we could enjoy a life that is truly free. Even free from fallacies such as Being Bottoming = Feminine?. Free from the need to live life through labels.