11-21-2007, 01:38 AM
Yep, we need a lot more info to really get the agony aunts...agonizing!
But overall? It depends on my relationship test. How does it bother you and how much can you take?
No relationship is perfect. Something missing? Enough to try it all over or just a nagging? Are you staying because you are comfortable or too lazy to leave...or worried about hurting him by leaving?
For me, the absolute worst thing that I can imagine happening is my partner staying with me out of pitty or boredom. It's never wrong to talk to each other, whether he feels the same or not. You do. If he does or does not, you can only make things better if you work on them and know that there might be a problem. That requires comunication.
If you feel something is missing, talk to him or feel will turn into actions and that may be too late to fix things.
But overall? It depends on my relationship test. How does it bother you and how much can you take?
No relationship is perfect. Something missing? Enough to try it all over or just a nagging? Are you staying because you are comfortable or too lazy to leave...or worried about hurting him by leaving?
For me, the absolute worst thing that I can imagine happening is my partner staying with me out of pitty or boredom. It's never wrong to talk to each other, whether he feels the same or not. You do. If he does or does not, you can only make things better if you work on them and know that there might be a problem. That requires comunication.
If you feel something is missing, talk to him or feel will turn into actions and that may be too late to fix things.