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So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ??
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It's not anything I've really thought about not doing...

Perhaps because I started my relationship, and being gay really, in foreign countries where you to tend to feel "safe" because it's not our country, ie. real. So I always took a kind of fuck you mnetality and did as I (we) pleased.

It wasn't long before I realized that most people don't care, or at least not enough to make a big deal out of it. People tend to get bullied more for being timid than being out. People take advantage of our insecurities. Don't show any and it puts them in the position of being the aggressor.

We've been ourselves, (and that is very demonstrative), all over the world, and never had a problem. Sometiems we get the occassional odd look, but oh well. We'd get the same if we were a 100 pounds over wieght, handicapped, black, asian or a thousand other things people find not "the norm".

As long as we stay within the perameters of what is behavior that everyone finds acceptable (hand holding, hugging, light kissing, etc.) let them think what they want.
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So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-20-2007, 10:54 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by drocko17 - 11-21-2007, 12:29 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Gay - 11-21-2007, 12:36 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by drocko17 - 11-21-2007, 12:58 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Michael - 11-21-2007, 01:05 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-21-2007, 01:09 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by fjp999 - 11-21-2007, 07:38 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-21-2007, 11:27 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Michael - 11-21-2007, 09:09 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Gay - 11-21-2007, 11:59 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-22-2007, 12:35 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by GayComputerDude - 11-22-2007, 12:42 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Michael - 11-24-2007, 12:00 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-24-2007, 12:08 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by drocko17 - 11-24-2007, 12:18 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-24-2007, 12:33 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by drocko17 - 11-24-2007, 01:41 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Shadow - 11-24-2007, 01:37 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Udabar - 11-24-2007, 08:25 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by futureRD - 11-24-2007, 08:38 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by drocko17 - 11-24-2007, 10:25 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by princealbertofb - 02-04-2008, 09:27 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Wilem - 02-04-2008, 10:05 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by princealbertofb - 02-04-2008, 10:47 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Wilem - 02-05-2008, 06:15 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by princealbertofb - 02-05-2008, 09:34 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Wilem - 02-05-2008, 09:41 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Hyde - 02-05-2008, 10:52 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by princealbertofb - 02-05-2008, 10:55 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Wilem - 02-06-2008, 10:39 PM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by princealbertofb - 02-07-2008, 12:52 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by Sui - 02-15-2008, 06:26 AM
So you're out ... but are you out in PUBLIC ?? - by kinkyhungslim - 02-17-2008, 11:32 PM

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