11-25-2011, 01:55 AM
I think you should let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable and make it clear exactly how it makes you feel this way; ie that you're afraid of him moving on etc. See how he reacts and then go from there. If he understands, then its probably not an issue; otherwise it may mean that he may just end up experimenting behind your back.
If he does seem to still want to experiment, let him know that you're willing to try it (if you are of course). And reiterate why you're uncomfortable. Let him know that doing this could mean the end of the relationship if it turns out as badly as your expecting. If he's still comfortable with the idea I'd begin to seriously question his commitment; but that's your call.
Its up to you where you go from there. You either give the threesome a shot and see what happens, for better or worse, or move on.
I hope this helps, good luck!!!
If he does seem to still want to experiment, let him know that you're willing to try it (if you are of course). And reiterate why you're uncomfortable. Let him know that doing this could mean the end of the relationship if it turns out as badly as your expecting. If he's still comfortable with the idea I'd begin to seriously question his commitment; but that's your call.
Its up to you where you go from there. You either give the threesome a shot and see what happens, for better or worse, or move on.
I hope this helps, good luck!!!