11-27-2011, 04:23 AM
Betrayal comes with a complex set of emotions. How we deal with betrayal differs from person to person.
It seems like your dread of physical performance is actually a fear of putting your heart out there and taking a risk that could lead to heart break - not really a risk of not being able to perform in bed.
Dating means you might potentially develop feelings, those mean that that gives that guy the chance to rip your heart out and gleefully jump up and down on it thus hurting you again. It is a very real risk I won't kid you there.
Looking at the two images you have of yourself, I find it hard to believe you do not have a following of fans who would be more than willing to help 'retrain' you. I have to wonder if you have distanced yourself emotionally from potential 'relationship' more than your realize.
Maybe I'm just full of shit... So you can ignore what I said if it sounds false to you.
It seems like your dread of physical performance is actually a fear of putting your heart out there and taking a risk that could lead to heart break - not really a risk of not being able to perform in bed.
Dating means you might potentially develop feelings, those mean that that gives that guy the chance to rip your heart out and gleefully jump up and down on it thus hurting you again. It is a very real risk I won't kid you there.
Looking at the two images you have of yourself, I find it hard to believe you do not have a following of fans who would be more than willing to help 'retrain' you. I have to wonder if you have distanced yourself emotionally from potential 'relationship' more than your realize.
Maybe I'm just full of shit... So you can ignore what I said if it sounds false to you.
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