11-27-2011, 04:26 AM
First, I want to say I hope time had heal your scars about the whole cheating debacle 
Though I have not experienced that, but I do feel the pain of putting trust in someone and then have them betray that trust. Though, what are you really looking for?? Just sex, or try out another relationship?
Either case, if you're afraid of jumping into sex and not get aroused. Why not try to hookup and go slow?? Perhaps foreplay a little first with a guy and if it's arousing, I would assume your testosterone takes over and you guys can take the next step. But if the foreplay is not very pleasing you can stop, that way you can't go fully into sex.
By the way, I just want to say Thank You for being a member of our country's servicemen.
And if that's you in your avatar, you're a really good looking guy, I'm sure you have no problem attracting another dude and you guys can go slowly and take the sexual encounters one step at a time too see if your arousal state is where you'll be pleased with. Good luck!!
Though I have not experienced that, but I do feel the pain of putting trust in someone and then have them betray that trust. Though, what are you really looking for?? Just sex, or try out another relationship? Either case, if you're afraid of jumping into sex and not get aroused. Why not try to hookup and go slow?? Perhaps foreplay a little first with a guy and if it's arousing, I would assume your testosterone takes over and you guys can take the next step. But if the foreplay is not very pleasing you can stop, that way you can't go fully into sex.
By the way, I just want to say Thank You for being a member of our country's servicemen.
And if that's you in your avatar, you're a really good looking guy, I'm sure you have no problem attracting another dude and you guys can go slowly and take the sexual encounters one step at a time too see if your arousal state is where you'll be pleased with. Good luck!!
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