11-28-2011, 03:34 PM
Not sure what you're so afraid of? I met my partner via an online site and our first "date" was at a local starbucks - we were there for 3 hours!
The reality is, meeting for coffee gives both parties the ability to leave fairly quickly if there's no initial "click." This, opposed to meeting for drinks at a bar (gay or str8) which can be daunting task to have a conversation with all the noise and distractions - OR meeting for something to eat - and if there's no "click" you're kinda stuck with having forced conversation over dinner.
So, don't vex about meeting him for coffee - it's a really good option for the first meeting.
Last note, you're going to have to "kiss" a number of "frogs" before you find your prince charming. I went on 20 or 30 "first dates" before I met Todd, so don't worry about 2nd dates when you've not even met him face to face yet.
When it comes to dating and meeting guys, just remember" How do you get to Carnegie Hall? PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE."
The reality is, meeting for coffee gives both parties the ability to leave fairly quickly if there's no initial "click." This, opposed to meeting for drinks at a bar (gay or str8) which can be daunting task to have a conversation with all the noise and distractions - OR meeting for something to eat - and if there's no "click" you're kinda stuck with having forced conversation over dinner.
So, don't vex about meeting him for coffee - it's a really good option for the first meeting.
Last note, you're going to have to "kiss" a number of "frogs" before you find your prince charming. I went on 20 or 30 "first dates" before I met Todd, so don't worry about 2nd dates when you've not even met him face to face yet.
When it comes to dating and meeting guys, just remember" How do you get to Carnegie Hall? PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE."
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