12-01-2011, 07:48 AM
Oh, also, I can't vote here because I don't agree with any of the options. I am happier with my companion of 20 years than I think I ever could be with anybody else. I would like to hope for you that you could have this one day. So I would ask myself if he was who you want to end up with and if it is yes, stay in for the long haul. Otherwise, if it is not, I don't know what you are getting out of your relationship, so I am not in a position to advise. I come from the position of somebody who is happy that he has been deeply committed.