What doyou think?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Hey guys, me and my bf of 10 months are in a rough patch. I have a higher sex drive then him and try my best not to pressure him to do anything he doesn't want to.

The issue for me is he's only in the mood once a week, if I'm lucky. I've started to get really fed up with it. It also doesn't help that i know he was much more active in past relationships and always has wandering eyes....

Am I asking too much or what? What would you guys do if you were in my position??

I for one would ask him 'what's going on'. For instance, I do not know if he works, if he has seasonal depression, if there is other arguments going on, his general health... lots of possibilities lie here that communication will reveal.

I bet you have wandering eyes as well - I can't think of a man who doesn't look - its in our nature to look, and stare and even make crude comments and other stuff when a good looking 'hot' person walks by. It doesn't mean we are cheating or planning on cheating. Short of popping his eye balls out, there is nothing you can do to prevent him from looking.

If he works he most likely is tired, if he has stress he most likely lacks interest in the act.

I have heard nothing about romance in your relationship, or other aspects of your relationship - are you two getting along? Is there an underlying 'argument' currently going on?

A have you tried to romance him? Offer massage, do cuddling? Are you waiting for him to make moves towards the bedroom or is he expecting you to make the moves?

He might of had lots of sex in past relationships because he felt it was 'necessary'. He might actually feel that all of that sex is not necessary with you because you to love each other, thus he doesn't feel like he has to pay or put out to stay with you. He may just be very comfortable with what you two have, thus is not pushing sex thinking maybe it may be too much.

I know why I don't have that much sex in my relationship. But then we talk about it and know how the other feels - health wise, stress wise, work wise, etc. We communicate.

Try it.