12-01-2011, 02:43 PM
It sounds to me, after reading all your replies in this post, that you've already made up your mind. YOu got with a guy you "heard" was really into sex alot (you said in the first post that you had "heard" he was very active sexually before you 2 were togehter) and now 10 months down the road, you feel like you're missing out on sex - yes, i said sex. I don't hear alot of "love" in your post. This sounds like a relationship of convenience and that neither of you has really "invested" in making it work. I'm guessing you're a younger guy (under 30) and have alot of gay friends, gay couple friends and you're hearing about all the sex and tricking they are having and you're suffering with getting laid once a week. (how am i doing?).
As far as who initiates sex, unless you set the expectations from the outset (i'm top, you're bottom, i'm the dominate, you're the submissive, etc), then, in my opinion, 2 people in love (especially only 10 months together) would want to make love fairly frequently. Now, everyone's sex drive is different, but all that being said, it really sounds to me like you've already got an exit strategy and, you may have already strayed.
how did i do?
As far as who initiates sex, unless you set the expectations from the outset (i'm top, you're bottom, i'm the dominate, you're the submissive, etc), then, in my opinion, 2 people in love (especially only 10 months together) would want to make love fairly frequently. Now, everyone's sex drive is different, but all that being said, it really sounds to me like you've already got an exit strategy and, you may have already strayed.
how did i do?
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