i did it...

[hamsandwizh]

Well good luck with telling the rest of your family! I really hope it all works out okay! Let us know how it goes. For me it took a little while afterwords before I actually had the whole weight lifted off my shoulders my feeling, I thought it would happen right away but it took a while afterwords until I realized through there actions that they really are okay with it. It wasn't all talk. My family never gets very emotional and rarely says what we're feeling, I'm guilty at this too although it's not as bad as my parents and has gotten A LOT better at it working with my therapist. So I didn't really believe my parents were okay with it like they said they were since they seemed so emotionally disconnected and it was only through there actions that I knew they were really okay with it. But that's my family, lol.