Virgo
12-03-2011, 10:49 AM
Self oppression isn't the answer.
Especially when nothing bad will come of expressing yourself...well...nothing more than other sexualities.
What makes you think oppressing yourself is the best solution if you are gay?
The only reason i can think of, is that you are afraid of the bigotry and stigma that comes with it.
Suppressing your urges almost never works, you'll end up expressing it sooner or later without some sort of mental conditioning. Even then, it's unlikely you wont "slip up" at least once.
Wouldn't it be better to express your sexuality how YOU'D like, rather than eventually "slipping up" and then feeling guilty about it?
If you're not sure about your sexuality, you could be Bi.
Though either way, you must have some kind of attraction to the same sex to be posting here, and my advice above would still be appropriate.
What ever you decide, have a good life eh?
Enjoy it!
mile:
Especially when nothing bad will come of expressing yourself...well...nothing more than other sexualities.
What makes you think oppressing yourself is the best solution if you are gay?
The only reason i can think of, is that you are afraid of the bigotry and stigma that comes with it.
Suppressing your urges almost never works, you'll end up expressing it sooner or later without some sort of mental conditioning. Even then, it's unlikely you wont "slip up" at least once.
Wouldn't it be better to express your sexuality how YOU'D like, rather than eventually "slipping up" and then feeling guilty about it?
If you're not sure about your sexuality, you could be Bi.
Though either way, you must have some kind of attraction to the same sex to be posting here, and my advice above would still be appropriate.
What ever you decide, have a good life eh?
Enjoy it!
mile:
Silly Sarcastic So-and-so
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