12-03-2011, 05:00 AM
Hi mtimble
First let me say, Welcome to GS.
OK , with the information you have given here , it is hard to tell what is going on, as I only have your side to go by.
Not that I would tell you what to do , if I had all the facts before me.
What ever you decide , should be your choice and no one else' s.
I can not help but wonder , how much of the fears and suspicion that you are experiencing, are in fact insecurities left over by past experiences.
If I were to give you any advise at all , it is that you and your partner need to have a really long talk.
Tell him how you feel, and make sure the boundaries of acceptability are crystal clear.
If you feel used at any time , let him know .
The best thing you can do for your relationship is to air the grievances.
Above all else , do not let unvalidated suspicions ruin your happiness.
First let me say, Welcome to GS.
OK , with the information you have given here , it is hard to tell what is going on, as I only have your side to go by.
Not that I would tell you what to do , if I had all the facts before me.
What ever you decide , should be your choice and no one else' s.
I can not help but wonder , how much of the fears and suspicion that you are experiencing, are in fact insecurities left over by past experiences.
If I were to give you any advise at all , it is that you and your partner need to have a really long talk.
Tell him how you feel, and make sure the boundaries of acceptability are crystal clear.
If you feel used at any time , let him know .
The best thing you can do for your relationship is to air the grievances.
Above all else , do not let unvalidated suspicions ruin your happiness.
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