12-05-2011, 04:59 PM
Even if this does all mean he is gay and not out, it really isn't something that I think anyone could give you advice on without knowing the situation intimately.
He might be fishing for reassurances that his being gay wouldn't really change your opinion on him; that its OK. Maybe he doesn't really mean to let 'the signs' out, and confronting him on it might be a bad idea.. hard to say. Maybe hes straight and you're just making too much of the situation.
Personally, it sounds to me like you have a nervous friend who is in the closet, and is sort of 'testing the waters', but then again, this is a judgement you have to make. He is your friend, not mine, and I don't know him.
He might be fishing for reassurances that his being gay wouldn't really change your opinion on him; that its OK. Maybe he doesn't really mean to let 'the signs' out, and confronting him on it might be a bad idea.. hard to say. Maybe hes straight and you're just making too much of the situation.
Personally, it sounds to me like you have a nervous friend who is in the closet, and is sort of 'testing the waters', but then again, this is a judgement you have to make. He is your friend, not mine, and I don't know him.
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