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[Ben30]

I would say don't go looking for anyone, just let it happen naturally, you never know what could happen if you go looking for people. Just be careful and play safe. Personally I don't find it particularly 'classy' to go out looking for fun there's just something a bit unseemly about it. Just let things take their course and you should be ok.

My wording may of been a bit wrong there i know what your saying about it being unseemly. I like that it to happen naturally but the problem is i don't know any gay men at all i may of met a handful in my life so far. I live in a farming village of about 10 houses and the gay scene around my towns. I could go to Bath or Bristol but i have to say i'm very nervous about that clubs and bars are not my thing really and i'd find it odd going there on my own. I'm not looking to rush into anything i just want to met a nice bloke to get to know and go from there.