New to this

[mrk2010]

You maybe a bit old fashioned so i am though and i see nothing wrong with that at all. In fact i think it's good it's far better to respect yourself abit and not throw yourself at people. Getting to know someone before you sleep with them is much more preferable to me. But hey each to there own and all that.

Thanks for your advice:-)

Awww thank you, lol I have an old soul, yeah that's what exactly what I meant, I have no problem with meeting new people but it's when it gets to someone wanting to sleep together after the first date which is a bit tacky. Tbh I'm a bit antisocial atm I have no time for men lol busy busy busy. I would rather know I behaved like a gent rather than an animal so that's just me. Plus I've heard far too many stories of saunas and things to put me off for life. I just wouldn't put myself in that position, anonymous sex is risky business. There are plenty of men out there many who have never been to a sauna or been whoring themselves out in clubs. You will find someone, just make sure it's on your terms and when you are ready for it.