12-08-2011, 02:04 AM
fenris Wrote:Thank Goddess: NEVER
Kissing : I have enough Saliva myself so why exchange some ? :confused:
If I want to be touched... I do it myself and than I know it is right ,,,
OK .. hugging and a kiss if we meet after 14 days..... and a kiss for my man when he want it or need it.. but not for myself
That I don´t want to be touched has another reason : It hurts me and the reason is my fibromyalgia... its like tickling.. tickling yourself don´t work but tickling by another tickles... but in my case it don´t tickles ... it hurts. But I can´t say that I miss it.
I nudge my head against him... or bite him into a ear... I´m not tenderly and I don´t want and need it.
I don´t want to be hugged from friends or whatever and I don´t shake Hands
I feel I must compliment you for your honesty. I was one who shunned anything romantic for the longest time. But, back then that was to avoid relationships. I was looking for one night stands.
I was once called "frigid," but it was a guy I had tried to brush off sexually several times. Still that word "frigid" bothers me. Basically, I do not like to be touched. Put your arm over my shoulder in conversation, and I will ask you to remove it unless you are a client with a known habit.
However, today my partner and I were involved with a friend who may lose everything due to shoulder surgery costs, and complications that developed today - blood clots. When we got home and it was time to talk about it, we automatically headed for the bedroom, stripped and cuddled in the sack to express our feelings. There was no sex, but there were tears when we realized it could happen to us in our early twenties.
I said we smooched or hugged 3-5 times a day, but most of these are like "checking ins" for less than a minute. A good deal of this depends on the kind of day we have each had.
No, I do not slobber all over my life partner even though love supersedes sex. I can handle the obligatory hug of a friend, and shaking hands is a learned habit in business for me.