Early new years resolution

[dlboy53]

Well not sure when next year but sometime next year plan to be true to myself and come out to the church or at least to the leader and my best friend.

The only thing is is I hate confrontation so I was thinking that I'll write it all in a letter format so that I can think of what I want to say with out being scared of doing it a few times and not completing what I set out to do. A lot of you have already given me a lot of ammo to defend myself and I'm grateful,but if anyone has any words of advice or what I really should do please say something here.

I want to time it right so that I'm secure in what i need to do next if things get to bad that I have to move or kicked out or anything of such.

Thanks everyone
Lee