12-10-2011, 07:29 PM
was it "our" agreement or your mandate and kept after him till he said he agreed with your porposal
that no more weed many people feel that something they want /need forces them to lie not to hurt the other party but they justaafi this in some way and keep peace in the family so to speak.
i am not saying that it's fine to go on binges with drugs just perhaps you could revisit the decision
about your agreement and say that maby you shouldent have pushed so hard but you felt this was best for him and get him to open to you he may admit he sorta changed the rules and why he felt this necessary that way you don't have to admit doing the spying thing but i wouldent be surprised if the spying came up to bite you in the ass in the future but try to work this out best you can but remeember its his life and so you can only help guide him not make him do something against his nature perhaps show him how it sometimes messes up a persons life but without being too preachy and show him thousands of exxamples
that no more weed many people feel that something they want /need forces them to lie not to hurt the other party but they justaafi this in some way and keep peace in the family so to speak.
i am not saying that it's fine to go on binges with drugs just perhaps you could revisit the decision
about your agreement and say that maby you shouldent have pushed so hard but you felt this was best for him and get him to open to you he may admit he sorta changed the rules and why he felt this necessary that way you don't have to admit doing the spying thing but i wouldent be surprised if the spying came up to bite you in the ass in the future but try to work this out best you can but remeember its his life and so you can only help guide him not make him do something against his nature perhaps show him how it sometimes messes up a persons life but without being too preachy and show him thousands of exxamples
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