Catch 22?

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I do understand the lying part bothering you...lying bothers me as well.....but in this case I think maybe it might help to put the lie in perspective and instead of asking him about it maybe you can come to terms with it and negotiate it yourself.

I can tell you what I do in similar situations...I find when I am bothered by something I try to put myself in the same situation and see if I have been guilty of the same thing that is bothering me...usually the answer is yes. In other words...is there something you are not completely truthful about with him? Remember every problem that lies in front of you has the potential to make you alot wiser depending upon how you approach it.