Andy told me to introduce myself

[Person66]

Dfiant: you are right in that sexuality is'nt a choice. I think we have different definitions of the word "fluid", I simply meant that as my sexuality changed and therefor is fluid, not that I had a choice in the matter. I firmly believe that you're born with your sexuality intact, or I should say that I now believe that everyone else is born with their sexuality intact and I'm weird enough to be "fluid".
Of course I have the word fluid used to mean you have a choice, but only by conservative right-wingers, and I don't give what they say much weight. Besides they have different meaning for a lot of words like: ethics, morals, and compassionate (need I go on).
Believing I was latent (or dormant) would be so depressing. I can only imagine how much fun I've missed. For example over a year ago I had to visit my relatives in the middle of nowhere California. I was getting bored out of my wits not to mention that my relatives are annoying people. So (much to their chagrin) I simply left for L.A. for a few days and got a great deal on a luxury hotel in West Hollywood by using the Internet. I had lunch with a dear friend (who happened to be gay and in a long term relationship) at this delicious place, where we caught up on old times and even did some star sighting and he later showed me all around West Hollywood, I also went to Disneyland. What I didn't know then was that West Hollywood has the largest concentration of go-go boys in the country! (not that I'm into that sort of depravity :tongue Being unattached at the time, what a lost opportunity for so much fun! I guess there's always next time.
As for everyone else, you've all been so welcoming, thank you so much.
Later.