How come no one seems to last at GaySpeak.com for more tan a few hundred posts?

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My experience is just the opposite. I have been here just today, have 25 posts, and feel comfortable. GS strikes me as a site where if you put yourself out there, you will get something meaningful back. I have never seen so much intimate conversation about sex, that I found myself sharing a story previously only known to a few. I'm jumping in both feet!