Is it normal to become increasingly more flamboyant over time?

[pellaz]

not related to being gay. You probably hung out with "stereotypical" gay men, and picked it up. But you know...Most gay men aren't flamboyant. So don't feel obliged by any way to act that way.

If i am with someone who has a way of talking, after time ill try to emulate his speech. I just think its polite, conversation is less error prone. but I tend to talk fairly fast, I often leave words out that i feel are redundant. Altogether it may balance out.

i think my speech is fairly generic but for sure has softened last few years.

[COLOR="Blue"]Also, I DO hate it when 2 guys call each other "bitch" or "girl"

Really dont care what they call me IF i feel i can control the situation. For example if I dont feel like a bitch that day I ask them not to use that term on me.

I wish there would be something in between the terms Homosexual and gay