Will you be ALONE on CHRISTMAS?

[fenris]

i dont think its such a big bad spending a few Christmas days alone and everyone should have the skills to do it. Just know it will not work for your whole life.

It can be a very intresting experience .... and alone does not mean sad, lonely or isolated. The first time I was not secure about my own feelings... Christmas / Yule means normally family, tons of food, no time to be for yourself and in many cases disputes and wrong expectations like "christmas has to be like every year in my childhood "
And if you are for yourself you have lots of time.... hearing the bells ringing, watching people going to church or back home, seeing the lights in the windows, candles, christmas trees... it is so peacefully. Going through empty streets.... if you want you can go on a highway with your dogs :-)
And if you are spiritually... you can be spiritually.... normally I go on the fields at midnight, watching stars and sky.... burning some incense-sticks... and thinking back to my parents, my grandma, people and animals I lost.... and a few times this evenings my phone rings.... my man... some friends.... so you feel your own being and thats what means yule or christmas for me.