Possible Warning Signs?

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Honestly...I think that people who are "controlling" and want to know who you are talking to ect are projecting their own crap on to you..meaning...they know what THEY either do or think about with other people so assume you are doing the same thing and the more provocative their own thoughts the more they become possessive and jealous of you.

I would bring up the "idea' of projecting to her and see how she handles it. Some people are actually interested in evolving and growing as a person and if they are at least interested in the concept then maybe there is a chance.