neeed help...

[tom]

Next time you're with this guy, do everything except have "sex". No sucking, no fucking. Just kissing, massaging, cuddling, take a shower together, have long slow make out sessions.

The idea is to be SENSUAL, not "sexual". Let your body and MIND enjoy the intimacy and the whole experience of being close to someone WITHOUT trying to achieve a specific goal (erection ---> ejaculation).

Maybe you'll get hard when you take the focus off of your dick and put your focus on YOUR PARTNER.

Tell him you want to wash his body in the shower--or take a bath together. Then give him a long slow full body massage. Smother him in kisses and hugs. Forget about your dick. Everything is about him.

Good luck and enjoy.

hey thanks a lot man.. may be u r ri8... no.. u r ri8 coz i was just focusing on my dick just like u said...