12-28-2011, 06:32 PM
matty7 Wrote:hi m8 ... hope that been in the uk u may find that people are pleased if u want to come out...but thats totally up to u - welcome to gayspeak anyway ,,hope to see u posting questions etc !!!
i know very well it's not a big matter to the local british people ..well just by seeing the no. of gay bars in soho in London lol and the openness of those bars...it's pretty much like telling them there is nothing to hide. The thing is i do have a lot asian friends and you know most asian are less open-minded ...and i do not want words to spread back to my family at the end.. thats the only reason why i am holding back this action all the time. I am quite sure my grandma would commit suicide if she hear this... LOL.