12-31-2011, 11:12 PM
Hello,
I came out to my family when i was 17... I couldnt take it anymore being in the closet and i was out walking the dogs with my step dad and tolds him whilst out... He asked if he could tell my mum and i said ok... I wasnt nervous i figured it saved me the work and she called me in that night and said as long as your happy im happy... You are my son and whoever you end up with in life is your lifestyle ment to be.. My brother took it a little hard and he kept being nasty with comments and one night enough was enough my mother got up punched him in the face and screamed his your fucking brother dont you dare slate him like that under my roof... You will respect him and if you dont you will find life very difficult and grow up to be a very sad little man... I love him just as much as i love you and he isnt sitting there giving you abuse for being with a woman to which he shouted its fucking normal so my mum said that I was normal...
This took a massive burden off my shoulders and my uncles were told that night and they were told to respect my sexuality or dont bother being part of the family... My cousins and aunt and other relatives stuck by me and united as a family... My brother still to this day gives me the odd comment or two but i keep reminding him to not to forget its ok to be gay and come out the closet.. I think my brother backed off when he saw how angry i got one time and broke my hand in a car accident by punching the framework and denting it 15 times before a bone snapped in shock... I told him i may be placid and not much of a fighter but i could put him in A&E if i wanted to gay or not gay....
Another factor to me coming out was i beleived in one thing only.... If my mum loves me and truely has she will respect this and continue to love me as normal.... If not ill move out immediately and live with a friend... She did respect it and to show it she tells everyone she knows her son is gay
Kindest regards
zeon x
I came out to my family when i was 17... I couldnt take it anymore being in the closet and i was out walking the dogs with my step dad and tolds him whilst out... He asked if he could tell my mum and i said ok... I wasnt nervous i figured it saved me the work and she called me in that night and said as long as your happy im happy... You are my son and whoever you end up with in life is your lifestyle ment to be.. My brother took it a little hard and he kept being nasty with comments and one night enough was enough my mother got up punched him in the face and screamed his your fucking brother dont you dare slate him like that under my roof... You will respect him and if you dont you will find life very difficult and grow up to be a very sad little man... I love him just as much as i love you and he isnt sitting there giving you abuse for being with a woman to which he shouted its fucking normal so my mum said that I was normal...
This took a massive burden off my shoulders and my uncles were told that night and they were told to respect my sexuality or dont bother being part of the family... My cousins and aunt and other relatives stuck by me and united as a family... My brother still to this day gives me the odd comment or two but i keep reminding him to not to forget its ok to be gay and come out the closet.. I think my brother backed off when he saw how angry i got one time and broke my hand in a car accident by punching the framework and denting it 15 times before a bone snapped in shock... I told him i may be placid and not much of a fighter but i could put him in A&E if i wanted to gay or not gay....
Another factor to me coming out was i beleived in one thing only.... If my mum loves me and truely has she will respect this and continue to love me as normal.... If not ill move out immediately and live with a friend... She did respect it and to show it she tells everyone she knows her son is gay
Kindest regards
zeon x
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