01-02-2012, 06:51 AM
Well here is the update.
You all know how I felt after breakfast which is posted about so I'll start from there.
He told me that when he got to work that he would email me directions to his house so we could meet up and head out after he got off work so we said our good byes and gave each other a hug. I went home to get ready for the rest of my day which included a social fellowship at church so i had to plan what to wear to both events and not look overly dressed for one and under dressed for the other. BTW not very easy to do when ones a formal affair and the other is casual, without having to go back home in between. Well by the time I got ready to leave had not received the direction to his place so sent him a message say I would meet him at our destination. So got done with one event a got to the next event with no problems. but the kicker was this was not a formal affair like he said it was so I was way over dressed but really did not bother me because I like getting dressed up. I ended up getting us a table then a bunch of guys asked if i could share the table with them so I said yes. With me being the quiet type of person I sat and listened to them talk and spoke every once in a while,but started to open a bit up as the night went on. Need I say that this place I felt a bit out of my element as well.So My date finally arrive about an 1.5 hours later with a pint and a glass off beer and said hi and sat for a couple of minutes before he told me that he was going to go say high to some other friends, which he seemed like he was gone for a long time., and this happened several time so I started getting unconformable being alone in what was his setting not mine.
It seems like he like calling me stud handsome sexy all the time through emails and text, but when when in public place that i'm not in my element but he is in his he leaves me completely alone. Then when it came to midnight it seemed like he did not want to be near me, and of course I did not want to hang on him like a puppy dog. It seemed kind of weird that he did not want to involve me with his friends or show some interest in me even though a complete stranger that I allowed to sit at my table but the end of the night had his arm around me like we where best of friends and even had me taste his drinks to see if i liked them, plus even offered me one but I turned it down do to I had to drive. Which brings me to my next point. Now during breakfast he for got his wallet which was in his car no more then 10 feet away, but that night did not even offer to pay for a drink or to to make up for the breakfast.
Now he wants me to come over to his place on Monday if he does not get any overtime so we can walk 10 miles.
I know that I'm a logical thinker and such, but I'm really not sure whats going on here? Is this how people treat each other on a date where one person is not in their comfort zone. Yes I did say that I was having a good time but seems like he would have noticed that I wasn't and was sitting back from the crowd.
I'm at a total loss right now and don't know what to do?
You all know how I felt after breakfast which is posted about so I'll start from there.
He told me that when he got to work that he would email me directions to his house so we could meet up and head out after he got off work so we said our good byes and gave each other a hug. I went home to get ready for the rest of my day which included a social fellowship at church so i had to plan what to wear to both events and not look overly dressed for one and under dressed for the other. BTW not very easy to do when ones a formal affair and the other is casual, without having to go back home in between. Well by the time I got ready to leave had not received the direction to his place so sent him a message say I would meet him at our destination. So got done with one event a got to the next event with no problems. but the kicker was this was not a formal affair like he said it was so I was way over dressed but really did not bother me because I like getting dressed up. I ended up getting us a table then a bunch of guys asked if i could share the table with them so I said yes. With me being the quiet type of person I sat and listened to them talk and spoke every once in a while,but started to open a bit up as the night went on. Need I say that this place I felt a bit out of my element as well.So My date finally arrive about an 1.5 hours later with a pint and a glass off beer and said hi and sat for a couple of minutes before he told me that he was going to go say high to some other friends, which he seemed like he was gone for a long time., and this happened several time so I started getting unconformable being alone in what was his setting not mine.
It seems like he like calling me stud handsome sexy all the time through emails and text, but when when in public place that i'm not in my element but he is in his he leaves me completely alone. Then when it came to midnight it seemed like he did not want to be near me, and of course I did not want to hang on him like a puppy dog. It seemed kind of weird that he did not want to involve me with his friends or show some interest in me even though a complete stranger that I allowed to sit at my table but the end of the night had his arm around me like we where best of friends and even had me taste his drinks to see if i liked them, plus even offered me one but I turned it down do to I had to drive. Which brings me to my next point. Now during breakfast he for got his wallet which was in his car no more then 10 feet away, but that night did not even offer to pay for a drink or to to make up for the breakfast.
Now he wants me to come over to his place on Monday if he does not get any overtime so we can walk 10 miles.
I know that I'm a logical thinker and such, but I'm really not sure whats going on here? Is this how people treat each other on a date where one person is not in their comfort zone. Yes I did say that I was having a good time but seems like he would have noticed that I wasn't and was sitting back from the crowd.
I'm at a total loss right now and don't know what to do?
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