01-03-2012, 03:39 AM
sounds like you have some personal work to do to be comfortable with it yourself. I would be more confidant yourself before acting any further.
You would not be doing that girl any favor by hanging with her if you came out as gay. You can talk to her about being just friends, what are you getting now out of this relationship anyways. are you BI?
six years is a long tome to be in a relationship with the girl, why are you not married. Would you meet any Common Law Marriage guide lines?, that is if there is a period of time your together and you become legally married by default. Do you guys have any common property, if so you need to move to take care of this.
I am reading into your post but your aware; sexual preference and gender identity are separate issues and this is getting out of what i would be familiar with.
You would not be doing that girl any favor by hanging with her if you came out as gay. You can talk to her about being just friends, what are you getting now out of this relationship anyways. are you BI?
six years is a long tome to be in a relationship with the girl, why are you not married. Would you meet any Common Law Marriage guide lines?, that is if there is a period of time your together and you become legally married by default. Do you guys have any common property, if so you need to move to take care of this.
I am reading into your post but your aware; sexual preference and gender identity are separate issues and this is getting out of what i would be familiar with.