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[Bowyn Aerrow]

And just so this isn't another welcome thread, I'll ask a question: from what I've read, "gay" as a term indicates a subscription to a specific gender role in the traditional binary, is that correct?

That would be incorrect.

See I am a guy who is male who is into males - no gender 'role' here.

The most noticed gays are the flamers.



Chris Kanyon - Gay (dead now, sad story) But Gay.




John Amaechi - ^^^ - Gay too...

I doubt you would walk up to either of these men and think of them as anything approaching 'female' in form, style, build and behavior. These are 100% men.

The typical 'gay' you hear about is about 20% of all gay males. The majority of us are all men, into construction, sports, hunting, etc. we are doctors, lawyers, judges, farmers, engineers, etc. etc. etc.

We do not play gender roles in bed.

We are two people of the same gender having sex.


Gay is much more than just an act of sex. Being gay means you want to be with a person of the same gender - much as you were with the wife. This goes beyond acts of sex.

It is acts of love, commitment, sharing, companionship, yada yada yada.

Two penises touching may sound gay, but its not. That is just sex.