What do you consider cheating?

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It all depends on how much you really like this guy... if you are trying to figure out what is consider cheating then maybe (just maybe) you may not be into this guy as much as you think you do.

I for one when I truly like a guy, I stay away from everything you've listed (except flirting, drinks are expensive and it is always nice to get someone to buy you drinks :tongue

As you also said you guys have not had the "talk"... with or without the talk, if you still feel the need to do the things you listed with other people then you should tell the guy that you are not ready to have something serious. Be upfront and honest, mainly to yourself.