01-24-2012, 03:45 PM
As long as both of you are consenting adults its perfectly fine.
There is nothing unhealthy to the sexual 'humiliation' as long as you both enjoy it. If it is part of the whole Dom/Sub (Daddy/Son) routine for you two and no one is getting hurt (emotionally) then by all means go on and have fun.
A lot of subs do prefer their Doms to be larger than them - either taller, or more muscular, or with a larger package, larger hands, even older - all of these and more. There is more than just sexual excitement going on more often than not there is a sense of security, safety and other deeper emotions that relates to the 'strong male' role and the 'weaker boy' role.
His greater age (as example) also conveys much more than just excitement, he is wiser, more knowledgeable, thus more capable of 'dominating' you in and out of bed (most likely a lot more out of bed than you may know). And still there is a sense of security there that you need - this is not a 'bad' thing unless you do not want it and it is hurting you. Age conveys a lot, since he is older, he knows more and is the natural 'leader' to your partnership thus it makes sense that you are more submissive to his greater wisdom.
The flip side to this is most doms feel a deep sense of gratification from being the provider/protector thus 'get off' on being larger - thus conveying that they are 'able' to protect, provide, etc. Older males who have relationships with younger men usually also feel that they are filling a 'mentor' or 'teacher' role - and not just sexual, but in the various other aspects of the relationship.
All of this is largely due to the way we humans evolved. While this isn't a straight relationship a lot of the concepts that male/female relationships have (evolving the differences between men and women) crosses over into gay relationships. Thus the man is larger than the woman, and the act of male penetration carries with it the instinctual undercurrent of his ability to provide, protect, etc.
Humiliation is practiced by many, as well as role playing and even bondage and torture where the whole dominating/submissive thing is played out. The S&M community (Master/Slave) usually tend to have much stronger, healthier relationships than the rest of us. Mostly because before the sex starts they sit down and openly discuss limits, safe words and explore the needs of each other. Something that the rest of us rarely do.
Since this is an 'issue' or a point of question for you I suggest you talk to your partner,let him know how you feel and ask him what he thinks.
As for facials. As long as it doesn't get in the eyes and as long as you haven't just recently shaved (shaving leaves micro scratches that can open the top layer(s) of skin to many infections) then the spread of STD's is minimal
There is nothing unhealthy to the sexual 'humiliation' as long as you both enjoy it. If it is part of the whole Dom/Sub (Daddy/Son) routine for you two and no one is getting hurt (emotionally) then by all means go on and have fun.
A lot of subs do prefer their Doms to be larger than them - either taller, or more muscular, or with a larger package, larger hands, even older - all of these and more. There is more than just sexual excitement going on more often than not there is a sense of security, safety and other deeper emotions that relates to the 'strong male' role and the 'weaker boy' role.
His greater age (as example) also conveys much more than just excitement, he is wiser, more knowledgeable, thus more capable of 'dominating' you in and out of bed (most likely a lot more out of bed than you may know). And still there is a sense of security there that you need - this is not a 'bad' thing unless you do not want it and it is hurting you. Age conveys a lot, since he is older, he knows more and is the natural 'leader' to your partnership thus it makes sense that you are more submissive to his greater wisdom.
The flip side to this is most doms feel a deep sense of gratification from being the provider/protector thus 'get off' on being larger - thus conveying that they are 'able' to protect, provide, etc. Older males who have relationships with younger men usually also feel that they are filling a 'mentor' or 'teacher' role - and not just sexual, but in the various other aspects of the relationship.
All of this is largely due to the way we humans evolved. While this isn't a straight relationship a lot of the concepts that male/female relationships have (evolving the differences between men and women) crosses over into gay relationships. Thus the man is larger than the woman, and the act of male penetration carries with it the instinctual undercurrent of his ability to provide, protect, etc.
Humiliation is practiced by many, as well as role playing and even bondage and torture where the whole dominating/submissive thing is played out. The S&M community (Master/Slave) usually tend to have much stronger, healthier relationships than the rest of us. Mostly because before the sex starts they sit down and openly discuss limits, safe words and explore the needs of each other. Something that the rest of us rarely do.
Since this is an 'issue' or a point of question for you I suggest you talk to your partner,let him know how you feel and ask him what he thinks.
As for facials. As long as it doesn't get in the eyes and as long as you haven't just recently shaved (shaving leaves micro scratches that can open the top layer(s) of skin to many infections) then the spread of STD's is minimal
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