01-17-2012, 08:21 PM
I am not sure how you are using the term "discriminate"...so I will ask you..
Are you discriminating as far as looking for someone who you know you will be compatible with? If so...that is a GOOD type of discrimination....it is healthy.
If you are discriminating against them as people in general...best to find a way to accept them on some level for who they are. When you start judging these people as individuals as not being "up to par"...then you are being very unkind...to yourself. Everyone does it to some extent but it isn't pretty and it takes away from who you are...in my opinionmile:...and that is just my opinion.
Are you discriminating as far as looking for someone who you know you will be compatible with? If so...that is a GOOD type of discrimination....it is healthy.
If you are discriminating against them as people in general...best to find a way to accept them on some level for who they are. When you start judging these people as individuals as not being "up to par"...then you are being very unkind...to yourself. Everyone does it to some extent but it isn't pretty and it takes away from who you are...in my opinionmile:...and that is just my opinion.