01-18-2012, 12:21 AM
Like I said above, every guy I meet which I think is bad, I compare to my one and only true love (who all hell broke lose with).
I can completely understand that...I know if my lover left me or died...that is it for me. I am positive about that. No one could ever come close to him and it would not be fair to anyone else because I would measure them against him...and they would lose. BUT...I am old....you are young and that makes all the difference. It does help to be specific about some things and flexible about others I suppose. The more you are able to know what it is you want in a man the better off you will be. I don't think what you want is "wrong",,,,I prefer to think that maybe your perfect match possess the qualities that you are driven to look for.
I can completely understand that...I know if my lover left me or died...that is it for me. I am positive about that. No one could ever come close to him and it would not be fair to anyone else because I would measure them against him...and they would lose. BUT...I am old....you are young and that makes all the difference. It does help to be specific about some things and flexible about others I suppose. The more you are able to know what it is you want in a man the better off you will be. I don't think what you want is "wrong",,,,I prefer to think that maybe your perfect match possess the qualities that you are driven to look for.