Mother confessor hear my confession

[hoffster]

I feel like you were saying (to use your example) you don't care if someone has a 'minimum wage job' you just care if someone is settling on a 'minimum wage job' as a career... is that right? if so i think i see what you're saying.

i think you're just attracted to people with ambition and drive and I don't see anything wrong with that.

but as Bowyn Aerrow touched on... I'm in that early 20's age group as well. and finding someone with that ambition and drive may be hard.. I know i have drive and ambition, but, i'm in college, and for the moment i'm in college and i want to enjoy those moments while i have them. which i think is a normal attitude for college kids. so I think that's why it may be difficult for you.