He bailed.... Again.

[Inchante]

What I mean is that it is up to him if he wants to do anything about any thing. I'm only going to reply I'm not going to ask him to come see me. If he wants to see me then he has to come to me. If he wants to talk to me he has to come to me. If he doesn't then it might as well be over.

I still think that, if this is a recurring pattern, you are giving him too much control over what you are going to do. In my opinion there comes a point when you have to call a spade a spade. I don't know a lot of the details, but if this is a habit of his, looking for someone who will give you the time and wont bail on you should be a priority.

If that is the decision you gave him--to either stop bailing on you and give your relationship the attention it should have or you will find someone else--then that is the right thing to do in my opinion. But I didn't get that from your original post.