01-27-2012, 12:00 PM
Bowyn Aerrow Wrote:Cellar, is there any one clear defining moment in your life that has lead to where you are today? If so would you share it with us?
Wow.....great question.
I've actually enjoyed all the questions, and hope they continue!
I would have to say my coming out in 1997 (15 years ago) is that moment. Before then, I was so busy trying to live how I thought I should, that I couldn't see the toll it was taking on me. I was withdrawn, depressed, in debt, overweight, not liking my job, and poor physical and mental health.
After I came out I was able to shift my focus from doing what I thought I was supposed to, to what I really should be doing. I ended up getting a better job, losing 80 pounds, coming out of my depression, dating have having relationships, and overall being a happier person.