02-10-2012, 08:53 PM
I am a slight bit worried here Z.
Your anxiety and her snooping are not the best combination here.
Why is she checking up on you ; Is there a trust issue ?
I have been married to my husband for a very long time 29 years , and we are both very independent people, who have very different wants and likes.
I would never invade his privacy like that.
A relationship without trust is like building the cornerstones of your house on quicksand.
Now regarding your urges , it is only natural that you would want to act on them.
However as I have said a million times before , "Being Bi does not give you a license to cheat."( not that I am saying that you would cheat, I know you are better than that.)
The only thing you can do, is soul search.
You and you alone know what you want and need , listen to your inner voice , stay still long enough to take a deep breath , and think.
Keep us posted babe, we are here for you.
Sending you a mum hug.
Your anxiety and her snooping are not the best combination here.
Why is she checking up on you ; Is there a trust issue ?
I have been married to my husband for a very long time 29 years , and we are both very independent people, who have very different wants and likes.
I would never invade his privacy like that.
A relationship without trust is like building the cornerstones of your house on quicksand.
Now regarding your urges , it is only natural that you would want to act on them.
However as I have said a million times before , "Being Bi does not give you a license to cheat."( not that I am saying that you would cheat, I know you are better than that.)
The only thing you can do, is soul search.
You and you alone know what you want and need , listen to your inner voice , stay still long enough to take a deep breath , and think.
Keep us posted babe, we are here for you.
Sending you a mum hug.
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