Have you ever learned a lesson from loving sb. or from the one you love?

[Sylph]

Just some thoughts for you.

1) If that saying is true (when you love someone you'll learn something), but you didn't learn anything from those other guys, then maybe you never really loved them.

2) I believe that we learn more about ourselves when in a relationship. And that is a good enough reason to keep trying.

Best,

ohh, I second this, although. I think you learn about yourself from everyday life, not just relationships. I've learned to love people, not because I was in a relationship, but because I saw it was the right thing to do.

I think that lessons come in a way that you least expect them. Some are small and hard to notice, while others slap you across the face and change your life forever. Either way, a lesson's a lesson and it's best to accept it(as long as it's not how to become a mass murderer ).