02-13-2012, 08:04 AM
@Dfiant- Sorry to lose you in all that, I tend to think too far ahead on things that are simple.
But I still must say that, though the "dating game" is/isn't an innuendo for a quick fuck, why must it be considered as such? Perhaps this is me being my naïve old fashioned self but, shouldn't people get to know each other first?
I mean, don't get me wrong, I understand people are people and have needs/desires and that life is short and that we can't get to know everyone before we sleep with them, but shouldn't there be a way to make it less frivilous and cheap?
I'm not one to judge, or atleast I try not to, but personally, a quick fuck is something that animals do and although we are under the catorgory of Animalia, we are also more than that.
Fuck who you want, as much as you want, for however long as you want, but what does it really achieve? Gratification on a primal level? Sure. But I think the point I'm trying to make (as I'm rambling again) is that, because we are human, we are able to experience more wonderful and fantastic emotions than, just a quick fuck.
I don't want you to think I'm some saint or something, but my post above explains why I think the way I do, and I think that's how more people should think, but individuality is something I obviously promote, so ultimately it's up to them, I just thought that I'd say this on the behalf of young people who think like I do.
Young people don't necessarily find older suitors desperate or gross or anything, but less compatable when it comes to a relationship, as common interests are usually part of a good foundation to a relationship.
A quick fuck is a whole different ball game, and that's up to the person. How one sees how desperate someone else is, is how vain that person is. I admit to some vanity, but that's normal for someone who is still "finding" themselves.
I mean well, so don't take me the wrong way
It's a Libra thing I've been told :p
But I still must say that, though the "dating game" is/isn't an innuendo for a quick fuck, why must it be considered as such? Perhaps this is me being my naïve old fashioned self but, shouldn't people get to know each other first?
I mean, don't get me wrong, I understand people are people and have needs/desires and that life is short and that we can't get to know everyone before we sleep with them, but shouldn't there be a way to make it less frivilous and cheap?
I'm not one to judge, or atleast I try not to, but personally, a quick fuck is something that animals do and although we are under the catorgory of Animalia, we are also more than that.
Fuck who you want, as much as you want, for however long as you want, but what does it really achieve? Gratification on a primal level? Sure. But I think the point I'm trying to make (as I'm rambling again) is that, because we are human, we are able to experience more wonderful and fantastic emotions than, just a quick fuck.
I don't want you to think I'm some saint or something, but my post above explains why I think the way I do, and I think that's how more people should think, but individuality is something I obviously promote, so ultimately it's up to them, I just thought that I'd say this on the behalf of young people who think like I do.
Young people don't necessarily find older suitors desperate or gross or anything, but less compatable when it comes to a relationship, as common interests are usually part of a good foundation to a relationship.
A quick fuck is a whole different ball game, and that's up to the person. How one sees how desperate someone else is, is how vain that person is. I admit to some vanity, but that's normal for someone who is still "finding" themselves.
I mean well, so don't take me the wrong way
It's a Libra thing I've been told :p
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