No mutual attraction

[dfiant]

But I still must say that, though the "dating game" is/isn't an innuendo for a quick fuck, why must it be considered as such? Perhaps this is me being my naïve old fashioned self but, shouldn't people get to know each other first?

Like I said, it's just the way the world is, no it isn't right, but it is what it is and a majority of 'daters' are nothing more than playa's where people are a commodity and sex is a service.

Of course people SHOULD get to know each other, but fact is, gay or str8, men are mainly after satisfaction NOW without commitment.

It would be nice to find someone who is geniune in their endevours for a relationship, they are out there, but you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince.

As for a previous question you asked, can a 20 year old and 40 year old have anything in common? Sure. My ex was 23, I thought he was 'the one' because we were so alike, but I was blind t the fact that he was a drug addict, alcoholic, liar and a theif until I was one the verge of bankruptcy.

So yes, a 20 and 40 year old can have so many things in common, but unfortunately most 20 and 40 and 60 year olds are in different stages of their life.