No mutual attraction

[princealbertofb]

Where'sTheLove, I think the only way you'll find someone you are attracted to is by actually meeting them and seeing if you are really compatible with them in real life... No amount of Internet dating will replace that skin to skin experience. I wonder if you detest this means of procuring a love interest to the extent that all encounters that come that way will be automatic disasters? I sense that you disapprove of this means of meeting a person and yet you are left with little other choice since you don't go out.
What I advise, more often than not, is getting out there, not for the dating, but just for the socializing: joining a sports group,or a dance group, or a drama group, or a cooking or painting or hiking group (anything that you enjoy doing or would love to learn to do) and in the end you'll meet someone suitable who is into some of the same things that you enjoy. If you have some regular friends, male or female, you might ask one of them to join you on the venture. It makes it easier to socialise in a bigger group.
I have met a lot of people through dancing, singing and drama, which goes to show that it's possible without necessarily being looking for love. It's a very different thing from going to the meat markets that some gay sites seem to be.
Take care.