No mutual attraction

[Drew]

This is a subject that rings pretty true for me. I have the same problem - many, if not most, of the men attracted to me, I tend not to be attracted back to. It sucks, to be sure, but apparently it's not uncommon for many to happen to. And it doesn't just happen online - I've made a new friend recently during the monthly gay mixer socials here in town, and you can tell he's interested in me (one of my other friends even commented to me about this), but I have zero interested in the guy. He's nice and I'm cool with being friends, but relationship/dating? No thanks. I seemed to be doomed with this stuff.

But I'm going to keep trying, and like someone said above, keep loving and love will find you. You just have to be open to it and not resist. If I didn't believe in that I'd just give up, but luckily I do.

Take care and good luck!