02-12-2012, 10:20 PM
not that a big hug will help but never seen u expose youyrself like this before , there's nothing wrong with goin with the full make over as u see on a million tv shows where they make u look younger or make u loose weight - if it helps the individual then im not judging at all - u can do the simple things first that cost less !! see a hair stylist , ask what new cut would suit your features , as for the gym ! got to one and ask for a programm for what u want but it does take dedication - a gym instructor will tell u what is practical and achievable for your size, he shouldnt give u fake goals - only reachable ones .. thats your body sorted ... i feel u have deep seated issues from been a child so why not a therapist - your mind needs training just like a body - there's no difference to a good doctor