Complete Life Make Over

[mrk2010]

I'm in the same boat as you. When I was younger I was very shy and had a poor self image. Which has stayed with me till this day. In my last relationship I felt lucky that someone that looked like them would be my friend, let alone be in a relationship with me. Now I'm single, and get jealous when I see people together happy. I want what they have. Like what was said previously, you should go talk with a good therapist. I started a few weeks ago and it has really helped me realize some things, and have more hope for the future.

I wouldn't say I need a therapist, (not that far extreme), I just need confidence, I'm a perfectionist by nature in everything I do and looking good and improving myself is next thing on the list from my degree and masters course.