Complete Life Make Over

[mrk2010]

You didn't say anything about stress in your first post, you focused on looks. Their looks your looks, good looks - Teeth Bleaching, body image, hair - nothing about stress, nothing about emotional issues - you came off sounding shallow and sounding like you think a new body will somehow buy you a new life.

You said: I'll be able to attract more decent looking guys.

And I wasn't being sarcastic, I was being brutally honest with you.

Looks - image, looks - your focus, not mine.

If you want to go in depth about the stressors of your life, the emotional complications then bring it on and I will play nice. You want to be shallow and ugly then bring it on, I will be brutal and mean and point out all the ugliness of being shallow.

Again, nothing I said was sarcastic - brutal yes, but upfront 100% honest with you. I actually do care where it appears you are heading, thus my 'mean' stance.

If I didn't care I would have passed it off or not even bother to post anything.

I did say in my original post that I wanted to remove the negative things, I want to be more confident in myself, less of a worrier and be able to balance my life better with regard to my education as I feel I dont have a good work balance and I'm riddicioulously over worked. The only thing I objected to in your post was that you made me sound like some shallow idiot, christ if I was a shallow idiot I'd be working in a tanning salon (well i say working looking at myself in the mirror all day) and not trying to get a PhD in microbiology. I only want that bit extra oomph to give me a bit more confidence in looking a bit better, not looking for plastic surgery. Basically I want to get negative things out of my life, people who put me down and people who are a negative influence on me, I may not have worded it the best way; but whilst doing that I want to improve myself to give me that confidence. But I am unsure how to go about this. I'm sorry if I habe offended you in any way.