04-11-2012, 11:32 AM
Hallo,
I don't know if I'm just wanting to vent or if I'm asking for advice, but anywho...
I told a friend of mine and explained the whole situation about my friend. She didn't mind at all and took it very well. She didn't know what to say about my friend though but it hasn't been much of a problem since I got help from some of you.
I'm just wondering if it would be okay to just stop hiding it. I mean, not come out to my friend or my family or the people at work, but to just stop acting like I'm straight and just be, well, me and then let whoever find out that way. I plan to tell my friend sometime soon, and i really don't want to make it noticeable to my family for the fear of them disowning me. That wont be hard though since they are so far away and I talk to them not even once a week.
But yeah, I don't know, I'm just kinda tired of hiding. I don't like acting in front of every person I meet. But it's just a thought really. I don't really think it'll make an impact unless its my friend and my family that I tell, and i'm not ready to lose their respect. :confused:
I don't know if I'm just wanting to vent or if I'm asking for advice, but anywho...
I told a friend of mine and explained the whole situation about my friend. She didn't mind at all and took it very well. She didn't know what to say about my friend though but it hasn't been much of a problem since I got help from some of you.
I'm just wondering if it would be okay to just stop hiding it. I mean, not come out to my friend or my family or the people at work, but to just stop acting like I'm straight and just be, well, me and then let whoever find out that way. I plan to tell my friend sometime soon, and i really don't want to make it noticeable to my family for the fear of them disowning me. That wont be hard though since they are so far away and I talk to them not even once a week.
But yeah, I don't know, I'm just kinda tired of hiding. I don't like acting in front of every person I meet. But it's just a thought really. I don't really think it'll make an impact unless its my friend and my family that I tell, and i'm not ready to lose their respect. :confused: