At a loss of what to do and how to proceed

[Dan1980]

Hi Ken what ever you decide the most important thing is to be happy.

[pellaz]

if you like him make him take you to an expensive place in town and have him pay. Offer to pay for the next date at a better place.
I think its less critical with guys just who pays.

Ok so I'm still trying to discover if i am gay or bi.

People tend to be fluid or not at all by a big difference. dont try to put a label on it. Other than your self, who could you have a relationship with? The sex, you can get your self off right?


volunteer at the local lgbt center, do the front desk

[Rainbowmum]

Hi Ken,
Relax and be yourself , only you know how you feel.
Do not label yourself , or live up to others expectations , time will tell.

[brybry87]

lol,

I remember once this guy asked me to visit him, we've hung out before but he lives 4 hours away. So I drove to his place, but during the time I was there he always offered to drive me around and paid for food, etc..

He was sweet. Damn, I miss him, lolz